Tag: #relationships
Writing on GPUs, LLMs, MLOps, Kubernetes — and mindset · 30 posts
The Psychology of Jealousy — The Shadow of Love
Why does jealousy arise and where does it come from. From its evolutionary traces to the difference from envy, the line between healthy and destructive jealousy, and the path to rebuilding trust, we explore it warmly and
2026-06-21 · 47 min read #psychology#emotion#relationships#evolution#attachmentThe Psychology of Breakups — The Science of Loss and Recovery
We unpack why breakups hurt so much by looking at how the brain and heart actually work. The science of loss, a critique of the stages-of-grief myth, resilience and social support, and the path that can turn pain into gr
2026-06-21 · 30 min read #culture#psychology#breakup#emotion#resilienceThe Science and Romance of Long-Distance Love - Is Distance Really the Enemy
This essay gently overturns the assumption that distance puts love to the test. It explores the surprising strengths and weaknesses of long-distance relationships, trust and communication, and the readjustment after reun
2026-06-21 · 21 min read #culture#relationships#psychology#communication#long-distanceActive-Constructive Responding — How You React to Good News Builds the Relationship
A friendly tour through Shelly Gable research showing that relationship quality depends less on how you fight and more on how you react to good news. We cover the four-quadrant model of active-constructive responding, be
2026-06-20 · 27 min read #relationships#psychology#communication#positive-psychology#empathyAttachment Styles and Dating — A Map for Understanding Yourself and Your Partner
Secure, anxious, avoidant. Attachment theory is a small map explaining why we act the way we do when we love. From the roots of the theory to the patterns we live out in dating, and the genuine hope that change is possib
2026-06-20 · 30 min read #relationships#attachment#psychology#dating#self-awarenessThe Science of Healthy Relationships — What Makes Couples Last
Couples who last are not lucky — they have different habits. From the Gottman Institute Four Horsemen to the magic 5-to-1 ratio, attachment theory, and the art of fighting kindly, here is what science reveals about lasti
2026-06-20 · 40 min read #relationships#psychology#gottman#attachment#communicationHumor in Relationships and at Work — The Art of Changing the Mood
A single small joke is sometimes more powerful than flawless logic. We examine, with research, how humor shapes trust, intimacy, and creativity, and we cover the practical skills for breaking the ice and shifting the moo
2026-06-20 · 19 min read #culture#humor#workplace#relationships#leadershipThe Complete Guide to the Craft of Relationships for Engineers: Marriage, Children, Parents, Friends, Community, Gottman, Bowlby, and Ways Out of Isolation (2025~2026)
The last thing you stack on top of money, skills, and career is relationships. The marriage research of John Gottman (4 Horsemen, Magic Ratio), the attachment theory of Bowlby and raising children, the time-money-emotion
2026-04-15 · 14 min read #relationships#marriage#parenting#friendship#parentsThe Psychology of Relationships & Emotional Intelligence (EQ) Guide -- The Science of Better Relationships
How are healthy relationships built? From attachment theory and emotional intelligence to active listening, conflict resolution, and boundary setting.
2026-04-12 · 17 min read #culture#psychology#relationships#eq#emotional-intelligenceGrowth Mindset, Positive Influence, and How to Win People Over
From Carol Dweck's growth mindset to Dale Carnegie's principles of human relations and leadership that inspires. A comprehensive guide to becoming a better version of yourself.
2026-04-10 · 15 min read #culture#mindset#growth#influence#leadership